This is me right now...a lady that is bugged!!!
Here's the story. I just got Tanner into a Musikgarten class. I've been looking for something like this or a kindermusic class for awhile, and was thrilled when I finally found an available class here in town!
I signed Tanner up and payed for his classes. He attends every Monday at noon for 45 minutes. It's an interactive class where they sing, dance, learn songs, play, talk about music...it's great!
They want the parents to stay with the kids, WHICH IS ONE ISSUE, and one of the kids is, THE OTHER ISSUE.
Tanner doesn't participate as well because I am there. He doesn't focus on the teacher because he wants to sit by me and just acts rowdy because I am there. It is annoying. I wish I could leave. I am teaching him to be better and I think he is improving, so I guess we will continue to work on that and I'll just have to stay in the class.
The other problem is another boy in the class. They are all 3 years old. It's going to be hectic...that is a given. I know the class is for the kids to have fun and learn. A big, open, fun dance studio with mirrors on every wall only invites them to act like wild animals and see what kind of grotesque faces they can blow on the mirrors...but I also want my child to learn to respect his teacher and be appropriate while in his class.
This other kid does not do that. He growled like a lion or dog, or some strange animal the whole time today. It just wound Tanner up and made him not want to concentrate either. The mom just sat there the whole time too and let him run wild. She wouldn't tell him to stop!
I don't know if the mom thought:
*he is just having fun
*the teacher can discipline him
*I'm not in control so I don't need to discipline him...
I really don't know what her thoughts were but it was driving me crazy! Her kid was disruptive to the entire class and the teacher. I could tell the teacher was annoyed too, but then she brushed it off saying he was having fun. She did ask him to stop once though!
Anyways...what should I do? Say something to the mom? Say something to the teacher? Ignore it? I HATE being confrontational and don't really want to. Do I just need to take a chill pill?
However, if this kid is going to continue to disrupt the class and only aggravate my son to act naughty, I don't want to be there or pay for a non-productive class!!!!
What would you do in this situation?